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12/05/2003 Entry: "moved to a new front stoop"

First snow of the season falling across the city, covering everything with a cold layer of wet whiteness. It slowed me down in my usual morning rush, with the added chores of clearing the sidewalk and brushing off the car. I was out long enough for a neighbor to notice and cross the street to share some news. "I don't know if you heard yet," she said, "but Mister Junior passed last night."

Junior seemed to be a permanent fixture on the block, always sitting on his front steps, or moving across the street to catch the sun or shade depending on the weather. Retired, with a heart condition and diabetes, he didn't have a lot of physical energy but there wasn't a thing he missed otherwise. He knew all the neighborhood news without being a gossip and wasn't above sharing a quiet word or two of street wisdom. The neighborhood kids were always glad to run up to the corner store and get a cold drink for him in the summertime, and Junior always seemed to have a spare buck or two to reward their trip with a cold drink of their own.

He cared about the block and about his neighbors. He'd look for the best in each situation but had enough sense and experience with the world to know there are some nasty characters out there. He'd occasionally drift off into a little nap on a warm spring day but his eyes were open and watching.

He was good enough to pose for a portrait for one of my class assignments, and he wasn't shy about how he wanted the finished print to look.

I'll miss you, Junior.

Replies: 3 blabs

Last Saturday , I had a baby shower and a funeral of a friends mom. All in one day !
I was always told when the lord takes one, he gives one... which to this day holds true for me. My first son was born and 6 weeks later my brother dies, we buried my husband's brother and the day of the funeral I found out I was going to have Zack , my youngest. *and I could go on*
At Mrs Ruth service , my friends mom, they offered this: and its very comforting... you tell his family...
Im Free
Don't grieve for me , for now I'm free. I'm following the path God laid for me. I took his hand when I heard him call, I turned my back and left it all. I could not stay another day; to laugh, to love, to work or play. Task left undone must stay that way; I found that place at the close of day. If my parting has left a void, then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss; ah yes these things, I too, will miss. Be not burdened with times of sorry; I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life's been full, I savored much: good friends, good times, a loved ones touch.

Posted by Marion @ 12/11/2003 07:01 AM ET

I remember your first piece on him! Very nice memory, John.

Posted by dan @ 12/08/2003 03:07 AM ET

Wonderful tribute to Junior.

Posted by Shirl @ 12/05/2003 07:01 PM ET

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